Dont say "why me?? " say, "try me!!"

A speck of thought hit me when i came across this forward... "When life puts you through tough situations don't say 'y me?' say 'try me' "... I guess its a very old forward but gives an instant power to go on... All of us really like to say "I like facing challenges in life..." We speak as if we can spin the world wit our finger :) But when it comes to the real scenario, we get frustrated and blame every single thing that we come across... " Why is this happening to me ?? " ,"I am unable to move on" etc etc...

All of us like to reach great heights in life.. It a very common vision... We all like to be winners... So naturally we tend to take a step towards our goal... First few steps we will try to manage.. But the going gets tough for the next few steps... At this point some of us might curse life and give up... But some even in the midst of frustration and depression some tend to move forward with a very strong heart.. But what to do? Their goals might ditch them... Make them think that they are not even worth to dream of becoming a winner... At that point they just sit and realize how much confident they used to be.. the power, their will power, strength to overcome any hardship..

Recollecting all these memories never give them the strength to move on.. They end up only thinking of the past.. Some might give up at this point of time.. Their goal will only be a step away from them... But they fail to realize..

The other part of people still struggle to get through.. They don't have the heart to give up.. They want to achieve and reach the pinnacle.. But they are totally broken and shattered waiting for someone to lift them up.. Here comes their friends to help them!!.. A strong hand that lifts them up , gives them a hand to hold on and makes them stronger.. Friends pat on their shoulders and say "Why do u think u cant go on??? Why do u struggle?? Here are we near u!! Move on !! The world is waiting for u!!" .. These words give them confidence and they move on to the pinnacle of success !!

I always like to sit and watch the waves in the sea.. It reminds me of some old saying... "Waves try to reach land and rule over them.. It comes with a greater force to hit the land.. its efforts fail.. But it never gives up.. Once again it tries and it is trying till today thinking that someday it will achieve its goal"...

Giving up easily never makes us a legend... On seeing us strive , may be our parents would say, its OK don't struggle yourself... They may pity us.. But that would never give the world a chance to know who we are...

I am reminded of the saying of my school principal.."struggle..Don't give up.. The body will pain.. Things might hurt you.. But in the end its you who will know the essence of success "

Ask someone who has achieved after many attempts.. They will know the real happiness of success for they did not give up their destiny in spite of their situations turning against them...